There's two ways to react. The way she wants to, to blow up, to get angry or offended or just bitter. Of course she gets underestimated. Even by him. He doesn't ignore her but it's obvious why.

But that's not how she does things, that's not how she wants to do things. She's better than that.

"I'm a young goddess of nothing particularly important, why would I expect them to pay me mind until I've done something. I'll take my vows and bring in spring and do something good with my life." And be the dumb village girl forever? Maybe.