The answer is : both. Bossing people around is not Bulma's formal job title, but it is what she specializes in, especially when it comes to Vegeta and their children. If nothing else there's another thing to laugh at as he tells her that they aren't having this discussion while she's drunk, to which Bulma blinks for a moment before her prodding of her husband becomes an (ineffective) shove.

"I am fine." And she will maintain that, even as she turns to see what the fuss is about with Yondu -

Just in time to laugh at him as he says that his drink went up his nose. Okay, Yondu, she's forgotten that she was about to tear into you a second ago, already offering the napkins she's been carrying with her from getting her drink. "Here. Blow your nose. You're a mess!"