"What we did on your world was important," Devero protests gently. "Those folks at Kinzan needed to be honored. And what happened to you, what he did to you-- that... that hurt, yes, but you didn't do it to me."

No, Koumyou had died for him, and he's going to be processing that for a while yet. But that difference is important. He doesn't think he's conveying it well, but it seems so obvious to him.