"Hatred is easy. Hatred is the first thing people leap to when they find something that's different. Acceptance and care? That's much harder. ... But it's worth it."

But what to tell her, when he's still not totally sure himself? "... If you dated a girl I would support you, the same as a boy or any other gender identity. I did not know you before this, and I do not know your story. ... But the offer of a steady presence is still there. I cannot say that I care about you like a daughter because... you are not one to me. But I think... there is a connection there that is open to you if you so choose to use it."