Ok, she's had enough of that. She shakes her head, looks up at him again, and holds a hand out, so he gets a good look at it. Then thunks him gently in the forehead.

Stop it, she signs afterwards, her look emphatic. Whatever self-confidence, or self-loathing issues you have going on, you need to start dealing with them. You are doing the best you can, and if you keep focusing on what you can't do, it absolutely will get someone killed.

It was the General talking, really - even her hands moved with a different tone.

Don't make it about yourself.